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Surrender Community

You don't have to keep doing this alone.

A private, faith-filled community for women quietly struggling with alcohol, numbing, or feeling stuck in the middle of their life.

Inside Surrender, you'll find daily support, honest conversations, and a simple path back to yourself — without shame, pressure, or needing to have it all figured out.

What This Is

What Surrender actually is

Surrender is a private monthly community for women who are tired of pretending they're fine.

It's not

A program you have to keep up with

It's not

A place where you need to perform

It's not

About doing it "perfectly"

It's a space where you can:

  • Be honest about where you are
  • Untangle patterns around alcohol, numbing, and overwhelm
  • Rebuild your daily life in a way that actually feels sustainable
  • Grow in your faith without pressure or perfection

Think of it as a quiet place to come back to yourself — with support.

Who It's For

This is for you if…

  • You feel stuck in a cycle you can't quite break
  • You've tried to "cut back" or "do better" but keep ending up in the same place
  • You carry guilt, but don't talk about it out loud
  • You're functioning… but not fully living
  • You want a deeper relationship with God but don't know how to reconnect
  • You're craving something real — not loud, not performative, not overwhelming

You don't need to hit rock bottom to want something different.

What's Inside

Inside Surrender, you'll find

01

Weekly Rhythm & Support

  • Gentle structure to your week (not overwhelming)
  • Prompts, reflections, and encouragement

02

Private Community

  • Women who understand what you're carrying
  • No judgment, no fixing — just real connection

03

Faith-Centered Growth

  • Space to reconnect with God in an honest way
  • Prayer, reflection, and truth without pressure

04

Guidance from Jen

  • Ongoing presence, insight, and support
  • Real-life perspective from someone who has lived this

05

Optional Deeper Work

Opportunities to go deeper when you're ready.

Women sharing an honest conversation over coffee

Why It Works

Why this is different

Most approaches try to fix behavior first.

Surrender starts somewhere else.

We slow things down.

We get honest about what's really going on underneath.

We rebuild from the inside out.

No shameNo pressureNo pretending

Just small, steady steps toward a life that actually feels like yours again.

Become a Member

Join Surrender

Monthly

$47/mo

Full access to the Surrender community.

  • Private community access
  • Weekly rhythm & prompts
  • Faith-centered guidance
  • Cancel anytime
Best Value

Annual

$470/yr

Save 2 months + receive a private 1:1 session with Jen.

  • Everything in monthly
  • Save $94 (2 months free)
  • Private 1:1 session with Jen
  • Deeper support throughout the year

The annual option is for the woman who's ready to commit to her healing and wants deeper support.

Frequently asked questions

Is Surrender therapy?

No. Surrender is not therapy or medical treatment. It is a faith-rooted support space for women who want honesty, encouragement, and community as they face grief, alcohol struggles, and emotional numbing.

Do I have to call myself an alcoholic to join?

No. Surrender is for women who know alcohol, numbing, or coping patterns have become heavier than they want them to be.

Is this only about alcohol?

No. Alcohol is part of the conversation, but Surrender also supports women navigating grief, shame, faith questions, burnout, and identity loss.

Is this a Christian community?

Yes. Surrender is faith-filled and rooted in the belief that God meets us in the middle of our hardest places.

An Invitation

You can keep doing this alone… or you can step into something different.

There's nothing wrong with you.

But something isn't working — and you know it.

You don't need a full life overhaul.

You don't need to have it all figured out.

You just need a place to begin.